Connect with Bon


Mentalization draws heavily from context or the implications of an environment. Context is as important as content.
-Bon Dobbs


Image of When Hope is Not Enough
When Hope is Not Enough
WHINE now available on the Kindle to US customers!

Buy WHINE Today!

Image of When Hope is Not Enough
When Hope is Not Enough
Get the Non-BPD book that is designed
for staying and working on the relationship

A free eBook – 4X4 for Nons

Here is a free eBook from Bon: Free eBook


Healing vs. Stopping the Pain

Interesting article from a former sufferer of borderline personality disorder on healing versus stopping the pain. A quick blurb:

So, in healing, it is necessary to face the pain of your past, the pain that you are currently in and the pain that you will come to know when you can see how the choices you’ve made to protect yourself have effected not only your life but the lives of those around you, especially the lives of those who tried to care, to love and to help you. There is a profound grief that must be waded through in the quest for one’s authentic self.

Comments are closed.