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Attitudes toward effectiveness: Throw away the Scoreboard
In order to live a life and have a relationship without creating resentments and tallying up fears, you must throw away the scoreboard. What’s this about a scoreboard? The scoreboard is the “what she does for me” vs “what I have done for her” measure. It’s an accounting of transactions in the relationship. It’s not just about marriage (and sex); parents have a scoreboard for their kids as well. How their kids with BPD don’t appreciate the sacrifice they have made for them and blah, blah, blah. This scoreboard results in more resentment (she’s not meeting my needs) and more fear (I’m going to be the only one giving for…
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When Hope is Not Enough, Second Edition Print Edition Available at Amazon
When Hope is Not Enough, Second Edition Print Edition Available at Amazon! In the next few days, I’ll retire the first edition. No related posts.
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When Hope is Not Enough, Second Edition now available as PDF
When Hope is Not Enough, Second Edition is now available from the publisher’s website in a PDF format. You can purchase this format by clicking here. No related posts.
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Top Five Books For Partners of People with Borderline Personality Disorder (#BPD) – Kindle Edition
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When Hope is Not Enough, Second Edition available in Kindle Store
When Hope is Not Enough, Second Edition is now available for the Kindle! It should be available in printed form on Amazon and other retailers shortly! No related posts.
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Super Exciting News! When Hope is Not Enough, Second Edition is out!
After 7 years of working and reworking the approach, tools and skills, When Hope is Not Enough, Second Edition is out! Currently, it is available in paperback from the publisher’s site: When Hope is Not Enough, Second Edition Paperback It is also available in downloadable eBook format (PDF): When Hope is Not Enough, Second Edition eBook (PDF) The new edition is almost an entirely new book. While the skills from the first edition are still there, they have been enhanced, modified and structured more fully. The first edition was 185 pages long. The second edition is 252 pages. That’s 36% larger. Why is it so much longer? I included several…