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Feelings are much like waves, we can't stop them from coming but we can choose which one to surf.
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Beyond Boundaries now available in a printed format

My follow-up to When Hope is Not Enough, entitled Beyond Boundaries, is now available in a printed format from the publisher. You can buy a copy by clicking on the cover:

Beyond Boundaries

 

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Ask Bon: Why is this person so sensitive to rejection?

Rejection Sensitivity is the tendency to “anxiously expect, readily perceive and overreact to social rejection.” Someone with BPD will almost certainly have this feature.

Have you ever had your loved one ask you: “Are you mad at me?” Or has your loved one asked you: “Do you like me?” over and over again? Or have [...]

Ask Bon: Why does this person idolize me one day and call me “the devil” the next?

Black-and-white thinking is the tendency for a person to believe that events or other people are either “all-good” or “all-bad” in any given situation. People with BPD will often vacillate between these two polar ways of thinking, sometimes about the same event or person. This way of thinking is also known as “splitting.” In the [...]

Five things you can do as a supporter of a person with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

Five of the first things you can do when you discover that someone you care for has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

I often have “newbies” or beginning non-BPD family members ask me some things they can do to get acclimated to the world of BPD. I have thought about this long and hard and have [...]

Get 15% off When Hope is Not Enough from the publisher

I am offering a 15% discount on my book When Hope is Not Enough if you order it from the publisher (LuLu). That’s $16.96 versus $19.95 retail at Amazon right now. To order from Lulu follow this link.

 

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Quote from “Back from the Edge” Documentary

The mother of one of the young women with BPD says this: “What really helped me was when I realized that it wasn’t about me, that I wasn’t necessarily what she was angry at and the target of it, that I was just there to be somebody that she could vent all of this feeling [...]