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Amy Winehouse and BPD

One of my twitter followers posted the original Daily Star article about Amy Winehouse and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Of course, I’d had Amy on my Celebrities with Possible BPD list for many years. If you want to read all of my articles about Amy Winehouse click here. I have no idea why the title includes ‘Mental Illness’ in quotes. Maybe it was because they were quoting the relative or maybe it brings up the question as to whether BPD is an actual mental illness. Here is the text of the article (and my comments below):

TRAGIC AMY WINEHOUSE HAD ‘MENTAL ILLNESS’

TROUBLED Amy Winehouse suffered from an undiagnosed mental illness, a relative has revealed.

The talented soul singer could have been struck down by the little-known Borderline Personality Disorder.

Sufferers have feelings of anger, emptiness, shame and guilt and become emotionally volatile.

And it can also push them into substance abuse and eating disorders, both of which Amy succumbed to.

Yesterday a member of the Back To Black star’s family said: “It was never diagnosed, because unfortunately she would never agree to a proper diagnosis.

“I’m not an expert, but from what I’ve read on Borderline Personality Disorder it kind of fitted with her.”

Meanwhile Amy’s dad Mitch, 61, said he wished his daughter, who died in July aged 27, had sought counselling.

He said: “She never stopped trying.

“She hated the way she was when she was drunk and when she was ill.

“And you know, the way I look at it, she died trying.

“She didn’t give up. She died trying to make her- self better.”

This article, although short, points out several interesting things about people with BPD. Since there’s no guarantee she had it, I’m going to generalize a bit. First of all, it is tragic that BPD is “little known” because it is much more prevalent than bipolar disorder. The article says: “Sufferers have feelings of anger, emptiness, shame and guilt and become emotionally volatile. And it can also push them into substance abuse and eating disorders, both of which Amy succumbed to.” This is very true. A person in extreme emotional pain will do anything to stop the pain. The article ends with “She died trying to make her- self better.” I’d like to amend that statement to “She died trying to make feel her-self better.” That’s the nature of the disorder and that’s what many non-BPDs do not understand. It’s all about his/her feelings (IAAHF) and not about controlling, manipulating or calling for attention.




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Article about teen eating disorders and suicidal thoughts

Article showing that teens with eating disorders have more suicidal thoughts:

Teens with eating disorders more likely to harbor thoughts of suicide, study finds

By Amina Khan, Los Angeles Times

7:21 AM PST, March 8, 2011

Teens suffering from anorexia, bulimia and other eating disorders are more likely to suffer from suicidal thoughts, anxiety disorders and substance abuse — but how much they suffer may depend on the type of eating disorder they have.

That’s according to an analysis published online Monday in the Archives of General Psychiatry that, with 10,123 adolescents surveyed, is the largest and most comprehensive study of eating disorders in teens in the United States.

About 0.3% of the teens surveyed reported suffering from anorexia nervosa, and 0.9% from bulimia nervosa. A full 1.6% suffered from binge-eating disorder. Ethnic minorities were more likely to report binge-eating disorder, and white teens tended more toward anorexia.

Those who had one of these three eating disorders often suffered from other issues as well. For example, those who were anorexic were 1.6 times more likely to have problems with alcohol – but bulimics were 3.1 times as likely, the study found.

As for phobias, people with anorexia were 1.8 times more likely to suffer from a social phobia. Those with bulimia were at 3.9 times the risk, but even that jump was dwarfed by those with binge-eating issues, who were 5.9 times as likely to suffer a social phobia.

Sound scary? It could be worse than we think: The researchers write in the paper that some of these numbers may actually be “a lower bound of the true prevalence of eating disorders.”

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Copyright © 2011, Los Angeles Times

Literally Starving Yourself to Death

An article that came across the wire about BPD and eating disorders:

Body of anorexic woman lay undiscovered in flat for up to two weeks
Weight obsession blamed for death

THE body of a 31-year-old anorexic woman lay undiscovered in her flat for up to 13 days, because care workers and relatives thought she was on holiday in Egypt.

Annette Rogers, who weighed just 7st 4lb and had a body mass index (BMI) of 16.4 – the healthy range being 18.5 to 24.9 – had packed her bags to leave on June 18, 2009.

But she never left her Hanley flat and her body was discovered on June 29.

It was so badly decomposed that a cause of death could not be given and she could only be identified by dental records.

Now her family has made a complaint to the parliamentary and health service ombudsman about her treatment.

They believe Annette should have been sectioned under the Mental Health Act and force-fed, despite health professionals saying her BMI was not low enough.

Speaking after yesterday’s inquest into Annette’s death, mother June Bradbury, of Moss Green Road, Berry Hill, said: “I don’t want this to happen to anyone else. I feel she was left to die.”

North Staffordshire coroner Ian Smith had earlier recorded an open verdict.

The inquest heard Annette had previously suffered from cardiac arrest from the strain the anorexia put on her heart.

At the time of her death she was taking laxatives and slimming tablets and was drinking just 300 millilitres a day.

She also suffered from obsessive compulsive disorder and borderline personality disorder and heard voices which told her not to eat and drink.

She would also try to lose extra pounds by obsessively exercising and using sunbeds to help her dehydrate.

The inquest heard Annette had started losing weight at 18 after becoming involved with her married driving instructor.

But Mrs Bradbury said her daughter, who had taken overdoses and been sectioned in the past, had been looking forward to her Egypt holiday, which was being paid for through a care fund.

Mrs Bradbury said: “Once I knew she was going to Egypt I was against it because it was such a hot country but she wanted to go and that was it.”

Annette was last seen alive at her Bucknall Old Road flat on June 16.

Mrs Bradbury added: “She looked really skeletal and her eyes were fixed. I said you should not be going to Egypt, I might never see you again.”

The inquest heard experts expressed concern about the trip but could not stop Annette going as she was an adult and the respite grants can be spent on holidays.

A psychiatrist and social worker had assessed Annette on June 5, but could not justify detaining her under the Mental Health Act – doctors can force-feed patients if their BMI drops below 13.

Annette’s care co-ordinator Judith Dolman said: “We weren’t in a position to take any further action. She agreed to meet me on June 30. She was positive and looking forward to her holiday.”

Psychiatrist Catherine Thompson said: “We would all wish things would have turned out differently. But I don’t think we could have made any different decision.”

Delivering his verdict, Mr Smith said: “I am not sure how much more the medics could have done.”

After the inquest, Annette’s sister Debbie Bradbury, aged 29,said: “The health professionals said they wouldn’t do anything differently but I find that very hard to face. All the boxes were ticked, but what about treating her as a person?”

Courtney Love’s BPD-meter now getting in the red zone

It’s been a while since I wrote a post about a celebrity with possible BPD. To see past posts about celebrities with BPD (possible but not for sure) click here. I saw a picture a few days ago of Courtney Love. Geez, someone give the girl a pound cake and make sure she eats it. While Courtney herself says it’s the financial stress, it sure looks a lot like an eating disorder. Here is an article about it…

Yikes! Skinny Courtney Love looks anorexic; weight loss sparks concern over frail framed star
DAILY NEWS STAFF
Updated Wednesday, June 24th 2009, 1:22 PM

What happened to Courtney Love?

The former Hole singer, visiting a midtown NYC bank Monday, shocked onlookers with a scary-skinny frame that suggests the star’s yo-yo dieting may be out of hand once again.

Love, clad in tight grey pants and a sleeveless tunic, was a shadow of the curvaceous star who once walked the red carpet for movies like “The People vs. Larry Flynt.”

She began dieting in 2006 to lose the weight she put on after kicking her drug addiction, losing 52 pounds on a regimen of protein shakes, fish and vegetables, according to London’s Daily Mail.

Love joked onstage about an “eating disorder” during a 2007 performance — but later insisted she was only kidding.

The 44-year-old widow of Nirvana singer Kurt Cobain is currently being sued by American Express over alleged unpaid credit.

OK, so Courtney rings in on the following BPDish symptoms:

Courtney Love's a Skeleton

Courtney Love's a Skeleton

  • Eating Disorder
  • Self-Injury
  • Substance Abuse
  • Conflicted Relationships
  • Inappropriate Anger
  • Paranoia
  • Shame

Princess Di and BPD

Did Princess Di have BPD?I just recently started a new poll about which celeb is most likely to have had (or has) BPD. So far I go 5 votes – three for Princess Di. It has been acknowledged in her biography that she probably did have BPD. Can anyone imagine what her life must have been like if that was true? I mean, here is one of the most sought-after and most photographed person in history and she had (or might have had) an unstable self-imagine? I can only imagine what she went through. If course she was killed in a tunnel in France, but I would have expected her to kill herself with all the pressures she had to have been faced with. Her life must have been hell. And I expect the royal family had little understanding of her emotional issues. So Sad.