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	<title>Comments on: A New Name for Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)?</title>
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		<title>By: millie</title>
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		<dc:creator>millie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2011 00:44:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i was diagnosed as &#039;emotionally unstable personality disorder&#039; which for me is as bad as bpd, it&#039;s the &#039;personality&#039; part i hate. it implies that there is something wrong with me as a person, when i&#039;m just suffering. plus being called emotionally unstable doesn&#039;t sound great either, but i suppose it is correct and i&#039;m just going to have to accept it lol. emotional regulation disorder sounds much better.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i was diagnosed as &#8216;emotionally unstable personality disorder&#8217; which for me is as bad as bpd, it&#8217;s the &#8216;personality&#8217; part i hate. it implies that there is something wrong with me as a person, when i&#8217;m just suffering. plus being called emotionally unstable doesn&#8217;t sound great either, but i suppose it is correct and i&#8217;m just going to have to accept it lol. emotional regulation disorder sounds much better.</p>
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		<title>By: JJ</title>
		<link>http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/borderline-personality-disorder-bpd-erd/comment-page-1/#comment-11243</link>
		<dc:creator>JJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2011 16:27:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>just wanted to add that the general public needs to be made aware just how hard it is for a person with bpd every day is a struggle for the most part, people need to understand that having bpd is like living with no emotional skin, things that do not hurt other people or that would hurt other people slightly cause unbearable pain to those with bpd . i also wnt to say that there is alot of hope for people with bpd with therapy i think the brain has to relearn ideas and truths about people, relationships, etc , after the brain accepts thse new ideas emotions improve greatly, this worked for me the main ones were like i said earlier having your own idea of yourself and it has to be positive and not allowing anyone to be able to change how you see yourself and creating boundaries. researchers have also found that bpd tends to lessen in severity for alot of sufferers as they get older.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>just wanted to add that the general public needs to be made aware just how hard it is for a person with bpd every day is a struggle for the most part, people need to understand that having bpd is like living with no emotional skin, things that do not hurt other people or that would hurt other people slightly cause unbearable pain to those with bpd . i also wnt to say that there is alot of hope for people with bpd with therapy i think the brain has to relearn ideas and truths about people, relationships, etc , after the brain accepts thse new ideas emotions improve greatly, this worked for me the main ones were like i said earlier having your own idea of yourself and it has to be positive and not allowing anyone to be able to change how you see yourself and creating boundaries. researchers have also found that bpd tends to lessen in severity for alot of sufferers as they get older.</p>
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		<title>By: JJ</title>
		<link>http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/borderline-personality-disorder-bpd-erd/comment-page-1/#comment-11242</link>
		<dc:creator>JJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2011 16:16:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think bpd shoud be renamed like it was said before there are too many negative associations with bpd the name has a definite stigma around it to people who have no idea what it is.. the overall stigma is a crazy person who terrorizes people, usually an ex after the ex ends their their relationship (i think the general public&#039;s idea of someone with bpd is like glenn close&#039;s character in fatal attraction, got to love what that dumb movie did for people who have a fear of abandonment) the movie just sensationalized and made the very serious issues associated with bpd into entertainment and made people with these issues seem like crazy people who kill , while some may, just like some people with bipolar may , or for that matter anyone in a highly emotional state may, a majority of people with bpd have ethical morals and do not hurt other people they would first hurt themselves . girl interrupted also failed to show the serious intense emotional pain people with bpd live with just about every single day . alot of people with bpd are also very empathetic and are very humanitarian and sensitive to other peoples suffering (for example Princess Diana, who is beleived to have had bpd and Angelina Jolie who is also beleived to have had bpd when she was younger. I am too very humanitarian and sensitiveto othe people&#039;s suffering. I was diagnosed with bpd a few years ago when my ex broke up with me and I have been working very hard to try and change alot of the incorrect ideas my brain beleived in before alot of them are concerned mainly with boundaries i basicaly have realized that i had no boundaries whatsoever and did not even realize that i never took responsibility for how i felt, my emotions were completely dependent on how others saw me treated me, etc. i had to learn how to take sole responsiblity for my inner happiness  and emotions . i still have fears that when iget into relationships i fall too easily back into enmeshment patterns i typed a lot of personal stuff that kind of veered from the topic BUT i also think that bpd is a combination of both emotional dysregulation/hypersensitivity and also may be caused by enmeshed and emotionally incestous relationships with parents/caretakers where the developing brain of a baby fails to separate itself from its mother (it remains to itself in a sybiotic state) there is a really good article about this i&#039;ll post the link : 
http://ccvillage.buffalo.edu/Abpsy/lecture18.html</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think bpd shoud be renamed like it was said before there are too many negative associations with bpd the name has a definite stigma around it to people who have no idea what it is.. the overall stigma is a crazy person who terrorizes people, usually an ex after the ex ends their their relationship (i think the general public&#8217;s idea of someone with bpd is like glenn close&#8217;s character in fatal attraction, got to love what that dumb movie did for people who have a fear of abandonment) the movie just sensationalized and made the very serious issues associated with bpd into entertainment and made people with these issues seem like crazy people who kill , while some may, just like some people with bipolar may , or for that matter anyone in a highly emotional state may, a majority of people with bpd have ethical morals and do not hurt other people they would first hurt themselves . girl interrupted also failed to show the serious intense emotional pain people with bpd live with just about every single day . alot of people with bpd are also very empathetic and are very humanitarian and sensitive to other peoples suffering (for example Princess Diana, who is beleived to have had bpd and Angelina Jolie who is also beleived to have had bpd when she was younger. I am too very humanitarian and sensitiveto othe people&#8217;s suffering. I was diagnosed with bpd a few years ago when my ex broke up with me and I have been working very hard to try and change alot of the incorrect ideas my brain beleived in before alot of them are concerned mainly with boundaries i basicaly have realized that i had no boundaries whatsoever and did not even realize that i never took responsibility for how i felt, my emotions were completely dependent on how others saw me treated me, etc. i had to learn how to take sole responsiblity for my inner happiness  and emotions . i still have fears that when iget into relationships i fall too easily back into enmeshment patterns i typed a lot of personal stuff that kind of veered from the topic BUT i also think that bpd is a combination of both emotional dysregulation/hypersensitivity and also may be caused by enmeshed and emotionally incestous relationships with parents/caretakers where the developing brain of a baby fails to separate itself from its mother (it remains to itself in a sybiotic state) there is a really good article about this i&#8217;ll post the link :<br />
<a href="http://ccvillage.buffalo.edu/Abpsy/lecture18.html" rel="nofollow">http://ccvillage.buffalo.edu/Abpsy/lecture18.html</a></p>
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		<title>By: Holly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Holly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 May 2011 19:22:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think we might be sensetive to any name.(HaHa) But BPD is ugly and sounds too much like Bipolar. Emotional Regulation Disorder stikes a home run for what I feel at times, and the inability to regulate emotions is the core to recovery.  Who ever thought of this...nice work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think we might be sensetive to any name.(HaHa) But BPD is ugly and sounds too much like Bipolar. Emotional Regulation Disorder stikes a home run for what I feel at times, and the inability to regulate emotions is the core to recovery.  Who ever thought of this&#8230;nice work.</p>
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		<title>By: phillip jansen (uk)</title>
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		<dc:creator>phillip jansen (uk)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Mar 2011 14:44:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>there is nothing wrong with having bpd.its not our fault people fail to understand us.keep the current name.just dont use u.k doctors.</description>
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		<title>By: kevin blumer</title>
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		<dc:creator>kevin blumer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Nov 2010 19:30:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i dont like the term borderline as a diagnoses i think they should rename it i dont think it describes it good enuff but how long would it take for a new name probaly years then everyone might not like the new name or adapt to it</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i dont like the term borderline as a diagnoses i think they should rename it i dont think it describes it good enuff but how long would it take for a new name probaly years then everyone might not like the new name or adapt to it</p>
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		<title>By: Bon Dobbs</title>
		<link>http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/borderline-personality-disorder-bpd-erd/comment-page-1/#comment-5747</link>
		<dc:creator>Bon Dobbs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2010 13:43:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The point of this new name is to remove the idea of &quot;personality&quot; from the mix. While personality disorders will still be the classification in the DSM-V, it seems clear that BPD is not a personality disorder per se. It is an emotional regulation and impulsivity issue - in which emptiness and an unstable self exist - but the concept of a personality issue is pretty much off the table.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The point of this new name is to remove the idea of &#8220;personality&#8221; from the mix. While personality disorders will still be the classification in the DSM-V, it seems clear that BPD is not a personality disorder per se. It is an emotional regulation and impulsivity issue &#8211; in which emptiness and an unstable self exist &#8211; but the concept of a personality issue is pretty much off the table.</p>
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		<title>By: JI</title>
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		<dc:creator>JI</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2010 04:31:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How about saying they have a fractured personality.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How about saying they have a fractured personality.</p>
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		<title>By: Bon Dobbs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bon Dobbs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 15:52:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just because therapy helps, it doesn&#039;t mean that there are no neurological issues. Intensive DBT has been shown to modify the brain pathways used when emotional stress is introduced. The current research has shown problems in the opiod and other neurochemical systems. I find it interesting that people accept that depression can be linked to serotonin issues and that SSRIs are effective, yet when BPD is considered, no acceptance of neurological dysfunction is accepted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just because therapy helps, it doesn&#8217;t mean that there are no neurological issues. Intensive DBT has been shown to modify the brain pathways used when emotional stress is introduced. The current research has shown problems in the opiod and other neurochemical systems. I find it interesting that people accept that depression can be linked to serotonin issues and that SSRIs are effective, yet when BPD is considered, no acceptance of neurological dysfunction is accepted.</p>
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		<title>By: AV</title>
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		<dc:creator>AV</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 21:54:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s completely inaccurate that BPD is neurological issue. Although medications such as antidepressants help this somewhat, it&#039;s primary method of recovery is through therapy in which so many have completely recovered from this. It is emotional vs. an organic brain disorder.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s completely inaccurate that BPD is neurological issue. Although medications such as antidepressants help this somewhat, it&#8217;s primary method of recovery is through therapy in which so many have completely recovered from this. It is emotional vs. an organic brain disorder.</p>
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		<title>By: Salma</title>
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		<dc:creator>Salma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2010 11:52:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have BPD and i dont like the name at all. People think of BPD and think of and asume things that have nothing to do with the actual disorder. Ofcourse it is a really complex disorder and there is so much to it. But i really do think the name &quot;borderline Personality&quot; just dosent fit it. Borderline Disorder or even Emotional Regulation Disorder, I&#039;ve even read Emotionally Unstable disorder, seems better than what it is now. Right now theres just too many misconceptions to it and im sure other people can relate to that. 
It really does need a change. And more awareness this disorder is just as significant as bipolar , depression and any other mental health issue.. 
Why is just swept under the rug?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have BPD and i dont like the name at all. People think of BPD and think of and asume things that have nothing to do with the actual disorder. Ofcourse it is a really complex disorder and there is so much to it. But i really do think the name &#8220;borderline Personality&#8221; just dosent fit it. Borderline Disorder or even Emotional Regulation Disorder, I&#8217;ve even read Emotionally Unstable disorder, seems better than what it is now. Right now theres just too many misconceptions to it and im sure other people can relate to that.<br />
It really does need a change. And more awareness this disorder is just as significant as bipolar , depression and any other mental health issue..<br />
Why is just swept under the rug?</p>
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		<title>By: jordan</title>
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		<dc:creator>jordan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 02:56:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>um, i gotta say, as someone with BPD, it really is not a bad, offensive name, if not perhaps even the perfect name.  The mind is split in many aspects, it&#039;s fractured, it&#039;s on the fence, it is borderline.  and as for the name destroying hope and possibility, it gives me some assurance just in the fact that there is a name for it-that there is a community of others suffering through the same thing-that i am not alone.  the fact that it is just such a complicated disorder with such various effects and aspects, should not be looked down upon, and is also part of why I suppose some may take offense from sensitivity.  But i really believe it is a great name for this horrible, complex problem.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>um, i gotta say, as someone with BPD, it really is not a bad, offensive name, if not perhaps even the perfect name.  The mind is split in many aspects, it&#8217;s fractured, it&#8217;s on the fence, it is borderline.  and as for the name destroying hope and possibility, it gives me some assurance just in the fact that there is a name for it-that there is a community of others suffering through the same thing-that i am not alone.  the fact that it is just such a complicated disorder with such various effects and aspects, should not be looked down upon, and is also part of why I suppose some may take offense from sensitivity.  But i really believe it is a great name for this horrible, complex problem.</p>
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